Grail Kingship Rite
Something rare happened in Ireland last Winter Solstice.
Be part of what comes next.

In December 2025, at Winter Solstice, 12 men from the four corners of the island of Ireland, the UK and Europe, gathered for the return of the Holy Grail.


A rite of passage, conducted annually before the rise of the empires, this auspicious event took place over four days and three nights.
One day for each of the elements to review choices made around the solar wheel in the lead up to the darkest and holy night.

What was unusual about this event is that it was led by a woman, as was the custom in the mystic tradition of the Grail.
The purpose of the rite was to reawaken the sacred masculine – by embodying the solar king who is willing to undergo an ego death and be reborn mid-Winter – the most feminine time on the seasonal wheel and the most perilous time for the male psyche.
It took 9 years to gather men willing to bow to the wisdom of the mystic feminine.
Having anchored its return, we are now inspired to extend the invitation to more men and expand the circle.


This is not just a men’s retreat.
It is a restoration of your birthright; the second rite of passage that once marked a man’s passage from youth to king.
The crown of sovereignty awaits those who are willing and humble enough to own their shadow to become whole and balanced.
ARE YOU READY TO…
This Immersive Experience Includes
SACRED CEREMONIES
ELEMENTAL YOGIC PRACTICES
TRANCE DANCE
BREATH WORK
ART THERAPY
BROTHERHOOD CIRCLES
GUIDED INNER JOURNEYS
STORYTELLING
SELF-ENQUIRY QUESTIONS
EXPERIENTIAL PROCESSES
Who is This Event For?
Men of all ages ready to transcend their patterns of self-sabotage to become the greater version of themselves.
When and Where Will This Event Be Held?
Due to current world events, the next Grail Kingship retreat will take place leading up to the Winter Solstice in 2027 in Ireland.
Register your interest now to be advised when registrations open to claim your place.
What to Expect?
Four days and three nights of initiation into the mystery of the Grail via storytelling, sacred ceremony, sharing circles, trance dance, shamanic journeying, art therapy and ancient wisdom teachings to meet and embody Cernunnos, the Stag King.
CURIOUS TO KNOW MORE?
Watch this short interview with the facilitator of The Grail retreat, Tanishka and Rex Brangwyn, co-founder of the UK men’s network, Band of Brothers.
Without This Rite of Passage, Men Embody
THE HOLLY KING
A Man who protects his heart for fear of being hurt and losing his power. This keeps him isolated and enslaved to the inner critic…
At risk of depression, illness, injury & suicide during Autumn / Winter

With This Rite of Passage, Men Embody
THE OAK KING
A Man who has healed the split between his head and his heart, resulting in decisive actions from the heart that inspire trust and confidence.
This Man is the Light of Hope in the Darkness.

MEET THE TEAM

Tanishka: Retreat Facilitator
Tanishka was beloved for 11 years as ‘The Moon Woman’ with half a million followers of her daily guidance. An author of six books, she has taught ancient feminine wisdom traditions & practices for 30 years. In 2004, she started working with men, creating male archetypal chart readings to assist men in integrating all 7 masculine aspects within their psyche.
In 2008 she received the message it was time to awaken the Grail codes. This was followed by intuitive downloads that included a Sacred Union series of books & Grail practices for men & women.
In 2011 she started receiving visions to decode the greatest mystery of all time, ‘The Holy Grail’ from the perspective of the sacred feminine. In 2013 she began touring with these teachings drawing on her background as a stand-up comedienne to entertain while captivating audiences with her ability to channel truth as an oracle.
In 2013, she created the 12 Suns Brotherhood Lodge online course, offering a template for men’s circles that align with the solar cycle to support their Hero’s Journey, activated by the sun’s transit around the astrological wheel. This was designed as a counterpart to her women’s circle facilitator training course that trained women in 44 countries. In 2013, she facilitated the Rainbow Bridge retreat for men & women to access & empower the feminine & masculine archetypes that govern the chakras as a foundation for conscious relating. She also ran this event in Bali in 2019, in addition to creating online courses for men and women to activate the meridians of sacred masculine & feminine energy by empowering each of the masculine and feminine archetypes.
In addition to being a popular keynote speaker at conferences, summits and festivals online & live around the world, she writes feature articles for leading women’s and alternative health magazines & conducts online courses, speaking tours & retreats. Her fifth book, ‘Goddess Wisdom’ published by Hay House in conjunction with an online course was released June 2017 and was translated into Chinese, French and Slovenian.
Since 2020, Tanishka has led men’s circles around the world, both online and in 10 countries. She speaks regularly at festivals on how to awaken the sacred masculine and why it is time to reawaken the lost mystic tradition of The Grail, the title of her latest book rated 5 stars on Amazon.
“I used to think the idea of a woman initiating men was emasculating. So I was surprised to receive a vision in 2011 of a past incarnation, where I was initiating men in the forest. This came after an intuitive flash that it was time to activate, ‘the Grail codes’. A year later I was guided to create my first speaking tour with crowdfunding. Shortly before the tour began, I decoded the truth about the Holy Grail, a rite of passage that awakened the stag king, Cernunnos and the King Stag greeted me at my front door! It’s been a long journey since then…but I have persisted, urged on by my ancestors and brothers who have attended my talks. It is with a full heart of gratitude I acknowledge my great, great, great, great, great grandfather, Iolo Morganwg, a Welsh bard and Druid who was passionate about reinstating our rites, stolen by colonialism.”

Praise for Tanishka

The 5 Gifts Men Receive Through Seeking the Grail

THE MIRROR
Just as the moon reflects the sun, the sacred feminine holds up the mirror of your soul, so you can reflect upon your choices.

THE CUP OF HUMAN KINDNESS
This cup of loving compassion awakens the bride within, so your heart is open to give & receive love.

EXCALIBUR, THE SWORD OF TRUTH
Receive the sword of truth that cuts through illusion and indecision, so you can fulfil your highest destiny.

THE TREE OF LIFE
The Grail activates the World Tree within your psyche so you can journey between the three worlds, without substances.

THE CAULDRON OF PLENTY
Discover how to harness the power of the natural cycles to your role in the circle of life and manifest your deepest desires.
